4 out of 4 people found the following comment useful :- a beautiful experience, 25 December 2005
Author:
rimjak from Hollywood, CA
A touching telepic, this was perfect for it's original Mother's Day
debut. It stars Gloria Reuben (of ER) as woman who grew up in a foster
home and now, with her own family life bustling, becomes ever more
curious about her biological mother. Flashbacks help the story unfold,
from the early '60s where a white woman gives up a black child
conceived after a rape. For most of the period that follows, this child
lives with a black foster mother (Lynn Whitfield) and grow fond of each
other. As a teen, she is adopted by a well meaning but woefully
unprepared white liberal (Alice Krige) who gains a black daughter but
loses her skittish boyfriend in the process. The young black woman
rebels, and eventually runs away, never to return. Now as as she yearns
to know the truth and to find her mother, she revisits her foster
mother and has a chance encounter with her adoptive mother. Anne
Bancroft is superb in a Emmy winning performance as the now aged
biological mother. Ruben shines in the lead, and Whitfield and Krige
lend fine emotional support. While there are some tear jerking moments
in the end, the film itself is more the story of a quest than a simple
tearjerker melodrama. Strictly a TV movie, but a very fine one.
5 out of 6 people found the following comment useful :- Love the Husband's Character, 18 December 2005
Author:
ssmcg from United States
I love the way that they portrayed the husband of the natural mother
(Geraldine). He was as compassionate as any character I have ever seen
and made me proud to be part of the human race. Holding his wife
blameless for the rape (which wasn't necessarily the norm during the
50s and 60s); willingness to accept his wife's decision about what to
do with the black child--even encouraging her to keep her baby ("it's
just a baby"); saving clues of the child's whereabouts for the birth
mother, which she found after his death. Truly a touching story and a
laudable portrayal. I hope the real life character was equally as
compassionate.
5 out of 6 people found the following comment useful :- Yep! This is a very touching film, based on a true story., 21 June 2002
Author:
TxMike from Houston, Tx, USA, Earth
*** This comment may contain spoilers ***
The story spans 35 years. White woman is walking back from movies at
night, gets raped by a black man in a dark alley, being Christian she
does not want to have an abortion and plans to integrate
(no pun intended) the new child into her existing family. But social
pressures cause her to decide it would be better if her daughter, who
looked more black than caucasian, were given for adoption, presumably
to grow up in a black family. But as fate and shaky politics would have
it, after 7 years she was taken away from her black foster mother, who
wanted to adopt her, and sent to a caucasian family in Wisconsin.
Family strife cause a divorce and she was raised alone by the mom.
At 17 the girl gets pregnant by her boyfriend, she moves away from
home, loses contact with her adoptive mom, marries the father, and they
raise a family of 5, apparently happily. After 17 years, at age 34, she
decides to find her birth mom, whom she locates through mom's brother,
and with help of an internet search. It is a tearful and joyful
reunion, her birth mom tells her she always loved her, just wanted to
give her a better chance for a good life. In the end there is a "family
reunion", a fairly large crowd, all having a good time, all different
colors and shades of faces. Unspoken, but the message was clear, that
we can all get along, color of your skin is not important.
A made-for-TV movie, overall very well done, a good story, a worthwhile
message.
1 out of 1 people found the following comment useful :- Nice companion piece to "A Family Thing", 7 April 2005
Author:
dhalgren74 from Tampa, Florida
A working-class Boston, married, white woman is raped by a black thug
and has to give up the resulting child for adoption, despite the fact
that she loves her. The girl grows up knowing two adoptive mothers --
one black, one white -- but when she becomes a wife and mother herself,
finds that her children only know half of their family history,
something the girl sets out to rectify.
The only element of this TV-movie that doesn't quite work is the sappy,
schmaltzy 'women's music' (keening vocals sung to slightly-ethnic new
agey themes) which needlessly well up at virtually every emotional
moment. The picture stars four quality actresses in a strong story of
interracial adoption; it's really an insult to their powers as
thespians to insert wailing cries of sadness or elation as if the
audience won't 'get' what is happening. They did this a lot in old
Hollywood films, making many of them unwatchable today.
I would have liked to have seen more scenes with Alice Krige as
Barbara's mom during her adolescence; not quite sure why it got such
short shrift. Otherwise a good film with a similar theme to "A Family
Thing", which stars Robert Duval and James Earl Jones as brothers who
never knew that they share the same mother.
1 out of 1 people found the following comment useful :- A search for the truth, good or bad., 15 February 1999
Author:
Fran Mahan (franiof@aol.com) from USA
A search for a woman's natural mother, turns up not one mother, but three.
The search was started to secure medical history for
her children, but turned out to be a release of her deep-set
emotions. I liked this movie for many reasons. It was based on actual
events and shows the value of not giving up, although
I felt her search for the truth was "a bit too easy".
1 out of 2 people found the following comment useful :- I loved this movie!, 12 September 2004
Author:
nancy-50 from U.S.A.
I am the adoptive mother of a black son and he was not legally ours
when I stumbled upon this movie while visiting my in-laws. I held him
on my lap and cried during much of the film. This is a wonderful movie!
I would watch it over and over if I could get it on DVD.
The white adoptive parents in this movie were clearly not people who
wanted a child to love and I was sorry that the heroine had to live
with them and never felt truly part of a family. However, to see her
biological mother embrace her and have her realize at the end how much
a part of several families she was warmed my heart. It contains a
message of brotherhood and humanness that should touch all people.
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4 out of 4 people found the following comment useful :-

a beautiful experience, 25 December 2005
Author: rimjak from Hollywood, CA
A touching telepic, this was perfect for it's original Mother's Day debut. It stars Gloria Reuben (of ER) as woman who grew up in a foster home and now, with her own family life bustling, becomes ever more curious about her biological mother. Flashbacks help the story unfold, from the early '60s where a white woman gives up a black child conceived after a rape. For most of the period that follows, this child lives with a black foster mother (Lynn Whitfield) and grow fond of each other. As a teen, she is adopted by a well meaning but woefully unprepared white liberal (Alice Krige) who gains a black daughter but loses her skittish boyfriend in the process. The young black woman rebels, and eventually runs away, never to return. Now as as she yearns to know the truth and to find her mother, she revisits her foster mother and has a chance encounter with her adoptive mother. Anne Bancroft is superb in a Emmy winning performance as the now aged biological mother. Ruben shines in the lead, and Whitfield and Krige lend fine emotional support. While there are some tear jerking moments in the end, the film itself is more the story of a quest than a simple tearjerker melodrama. Strictly a TV movie, but a very fine one.
5 out of 6 people found the following comment useful :-
Love the Husband's Character, 18 December 2005
Author: ssmcg from United States
I love the way that they portrayed the husband of the natural mother (Geraldine). He was as compassionate as any character I have ever seen and made me proud to be part of the human race. Holding his wife blameless for the rape (which wasn't necessarily the norm during the 50s and 60s); willingness to accept his wife's decision about what to do with the black child--even encouraging her to keep her baby ("it's just a baby"); saving clues of the child's whereabouts for the birth mother, which she found after his death. Truly a touching story and a laudable portrayal. I hope the real life character was equally as compassionate.
5 out of 6 people found the following comment useful :-
Yep! This is a very touching film, based on a true story., 21 June 2002
Author: TxMike from Houston, Tx, USA, Earth
*** This comment may contain spoilers ***
The story spans 35 years. White woman is walking back from movies at night, gets raped by a black man in a dark alley, being Christian she does not want to have an abortion and plans to integrate (no pun intended) the new child into her existing family. But social pressures cause her to decide it would be better if her daughter, who looked more black than caucasian, were given for adoption, presumably to grow up in a black family. But as fate and shaky politics would have it, after 7 years she was taken away from her black foster mother, who wanted to adopt her, and sent to a caucasian family in Wisconsin. Family strife cause a divorce and she was raised alone by the mom. At 17 the girl gets pregnant by her boyfriend, she moves away from home, loses contact with her adoptive mom, marries the father, and they raise a family of 5, apparently happily. After 17 years, at age 34, she decides to find her birth mom, whom she locates through mom's brother, and with help of an internet search. It is a tearful and joyful reunion, her birth mom tells her she always loved her, just wanted to give her a better chance for a good life. In the end there is a "family reunion", a fairly large crowd, all having a good time, all different colors and shades of faces. Unspoken, but the message was clear, that we can all get along, color of your skin is not important. A made-for-TV movie, overall very well done, a good story, a worthwhile message.
1 out of 1 people found the following comment useful :-

Nice companion piece to "A Family Thing", 7 April 2005
Author: dhalgren74 from Tampa, Florida
A working-class Boston, married, white woman is raped by a black thug and has to give up the resulting child for adoption, despite the fact that she loves her. The girl grows up knowing two adoptive mothers -- one black, one white -- but when she becomes a wife and mother herself, finds that her children only know half of their family history, something the girl sets out to rectify.
The only element of this TV-movie that doesn't quite work is the sappy, schmaltzy 'women's music' (keening vocals sung to slightly-ethnic new agey themes) which needlessly well up at virtually every emotional moment. The picture stars four quality actresses in a strong story of interracial adoption; it's really an insult to their powers as thespians to insert wailing cries of sadness or elation as if the audience won't 'get' what is happening. They did this a lot in old Hollywood films, making many of them unwatchable today.
I would have liked to have seen more scenes with Alice Krige as Barbara's mom during her adolescence; not quite sure why it got such short shrift. Otherwise a good film with a similar theme to "A Family Thing", which stars Robert Duval and James Earl Jones as brothers who never knew that they share the same mother.
1 out of 1 people found the following comment useful :-
A search for the truth, good or bad., 15 February 1999
Author: Fran Mahan (franiof@aol.com) from USA
A search for a woman's natural mother, turns up not one mother, but three. The search was started to secure medical history for her children, but turned out to be a release of her deep-set emotions. I liked this movie for many reasons. It was based on actual events and shows the value of not giving up, although I felt her search for the truth was "a bit too easy".
1 out of 2 people found the following comment useful :-

I loved this movie!, 12 September 2004
Author: nancy-50 from U.S.A.
I am the adoptive mother of a black son and he was not legally ours when I stumbled upon this movie while visiting my in-laws. I held him on my lap and cried during much of the film. This is a wonderful movie! I would watch it over and over if I could get it on DVD.
The white adoptive parents in this movie were clearly not people who wanted a child to love and I was sorry that the heroine had to live with them and never felt truly part of a family. However, to see her biological mother embrace her and have her realize at the end how much a part of several families she was warmed my heart. It contains a message of brotherhood and humanness that should touch all people.
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